Your Path to Emotional Safety, Inner Trust, and Thriving Relationships
Secure Love Connection
Rewire your nervous system for trust, love, and inner safety so you can finally feel secure in relationships.
If you’ve ever struggled with trusting yourself or others, feeling anxious in love, or repeating the same painful patterns in relationships… this program is for you.
Secure Love Connection
isn’t about forcing yourself to “think differently” so you trust yourself more.
It’s about retraining your nervous system to feel safe in love so trust becomes second nature.
Does this sound familiar?
- You overthink your relationships and doubt your instincts, wondering, “Am I being too sensitive, or is this a red flag?”
- You want to trust yourself, but fear of making the wrong choice keeps you stuck in indecision.
- You crave deep, secure love—but no matter how hard you try, relationships feel confusing, unsafe, or draining.
- You’ve read books, listened to podcasts, maybe even tried therapy… yet you still find yourself in the same painful patterns.
The real issue? It’s not just in your head—it’s in your nervous system.
That’s where Secure Love Connection is different.
In Secure Love Connection, you’ll learn how to create deep emotional safety within yourself, rebuild trust in your inner wisdom, and confidently navigate relationships—so you can experience love from a place of security, not fear.
Maybe you’ve said these things to a friend at some point.
“What if I’m just not good at relationships?”
“I keep attracting unavailable or inconsistent partners.”
“I feel like something is wrong with me.”
“One minute, I’m anxiously awaiting their text, and the next I’m writing them off.”
“I’m so afraid to tell them what I want because they might leave and then I’ll be alone.”
“My relationships always start off great and then a few months in I find that I’ve completely lost track of myself.”
“They don’t seem to understand me.”
“I’m afraid of getting trapped in something that doesn’t really align with me.”
“Am I being unreasonable or asking for too much?”
“Why is it so easy for other people but not for me?”
Secure Love Connection is for you if...
Relationships feel like an emotional rollercoaster – you are either anxious and cling or shut down and pull away.
You are tired of fear ruling your love life.
You want to trust yourself and feel secure in love, but past relationships have left you doubting your judgment and feeling emotionally unsafe and unsure of how to build the deep, lasting connection you crave.
You second-guess yourself in relationships and wonder if you are too much, not enough or misreading the signs.
You’ve been hurt before, and part of you fears making the same mistake again.
You are tired of over analyzing every text, worrying about saying the wrong thing, wondering if it’s safe to open up, and fearing you might be a step away from having to start all over again.
You want to honor your needs (What are my needs anyway?) and set healthy boundaries, but your fear of rejection, abandonment and hurt hold you back.
Trusting yourself and feeling secure in relationships isn’t about finding the “right person”
it’s about understanding yourself more deeply.
In this program, you will:
- Regulate your nervous system so trust feels natural, not forced
- Break free from anxious or avoidant cycles and feel emotionally grounded
- Move away from overanalyzing and overthinking so you can date with ease
- Develop a deeper connection to your intuition so that you can distinguish between intuition and fear
- Recognize emotional safety so you can be open and vulnerable in your relationships
- Know and communicate your needs, honoring yourself and your boundaries
Deep down you really want to find a life partner who sees you, accepts you, and connects with you on a deep level.
You are here because:
- You want to be able to rely on your sensitive nature to discern what will work and what won’t and listen to those intuitive cues.
- You yearn for a genuine, meaningful connection that nurtures your emotional well-being.
- You are ready for relationships that build trust, acceptance, and emotional safety.
- You want to learn to trust yourself and that inner voice again.
- You are ready to break free from old cycles of second-guessing and anxiety stemming from old wounds.
- You want to approach relationships with confidence, ease, and vulnerability without withdrawing, overprotecting yourself or over accommodating others.
- You want to go on dates and trust that things will work out as they should—leaning into the mystery, as I call it.
- You want to have fun, experience joy in your relationships, and have an intimate connection.
- You want to be yourself without the worry that you will be rejected.
Most relationship advice focuses on mindset shifts or communication strategies.
But if your nervous system still perceives relationships as unsafe and unpredictable, no amount of positive thinking or improved communication will help.
💡 Here’s Why Other Approaches Fall Short:
🛑 Mindset Work Alone: If your body still perceives relationships as unsafe, no amount of positive thinking will override that fear.
🛑 Your Body Prioritizes Safety: Telling yourself to “just trust more” doesn’t work when your nervous system is wired for protection over connection.
🛑 Time Heals All Wounds: Time alone doesn’t heal attachment wounds—your nervous system needs new experiences of safety.
So the question is, what shifts these wounds?
Traditional relationship advice hasn’t worked for you because most programs focus on what to think—but Secure Love Connection teaches your body how to feel safe in love again.
Secure Love Connection isn’t just another relationship program. It’s a nervous system-based approach to emotional safety, inner trust, and secure love.
"While working with Amy, one of the biggest moments of transformation came when Amy and I broke through a massive barrier to my self-confidence."
“We had worked up to a place where I could be more and more vulnerable, and Amy was able to articulate and pull out emotional responses in me that I couldn’t see before.
As an entrepreneur and leader, I feel a lot more internal validation and a much deeper understanding of who I am and the value I bring to my team and to the world. I feel great! I feel more emotionally resilient, more confident, and more capable to handle the wide range of emotions that comes from being an entrepreneur.”
Chip Kennedy
Secure Love Connection is for you if
- You are either dating or in a relationship and you are seeking a deeper connection with yourself and with a partner.
- You want to trust and accept yourself as you are.
- You are ready to live your life with integrity, in accordance with your values.
- You are open and ready to connect deeply to your body and heal your nervous system’s wounds.
- You are ready to shift away from overprotecting yourself to showing up more vulnerable in relationships.
- You want to identify what you bring to the relationship and how past relationships are showing you wounds you need to heal.
- You are ready to bring playfulness, joy, mystery, and fun into your romantic life.
If you are ready to …
- finally feel the belonging and safety you have been longing for in your relationships.
- feel seen, heard, and loved for your magnificent, sensitive self!
- get off the emotional rollercoaster of highs and lows and know how to spot those high-conflict people.
- let go of the over-accommodating, over-caretaking, and people-pleasing patterns.
- know how to communicate what you need in a way that honors yourself and your partner.
- spot the red flags and trust that gut instinct.
- take ownership of your misgivings and learn to accept forgiveness.
- shift your nervous system so it’s calm and open to receiving words, affection, and care.
- have patience in the process – with yourself, with your dates/partner, friends, the universe.
- have profound emotional experiences that help you to grow and evolve.
- see relationships as the conduit for spiritual expansion.
- know what a healthy relationship is and how to form one with a partner.
Then, I invite you to join me in Secure Love Connection.
Here’s what we’ll do in Secure Love Connection.
- Regulate your nervous system and know how to support yourself during emotional moments so you feel safe.
- Heal the root of your trust struggles and understand how your past has shaped your current patterns.
- Strengthen your intuition, recognize your inner wisdom, and confidently navigate relationships without second-guessing yourself.
- Live in alignment with your core values and nurture your needs, helping your body, mind, and soul recognize what it feels like to be seen, heard, and honored.
- Create your relationship vision. ASK FOR and BELIEVE IN your ideal relationship, and begin moving forward.
- Know how to co-regulate your nervous system with others to foster trust and experience the cycle of giving and receiving.
- Be clear on your emotional and energetic boundaries and communicate your needs.
"I feel much more confident in myself and my ability to handle my anxiety."
“I was introduced to Amy by a loved one and was told that she could really help with my self-worth issues and anxiety. I wasn’t sure one person could help with how I was feeling about myself and how I felt when I got overwhelmed by even a small, conceived issue. I was wrong. Amy is so supportive, kind, understanding and real. I was open and laid out the issues that not only I had but what I was being told was being seen by others. She listened and immediately assured me I was not alone in these feelings and she had tools that could help. But it wasn’t just tools it was her listening and guiding me through my feelings and how to come out the other side loving myself more than I did. I had an issue that came up where I was in a comedy show and we were assigned seats I did not think my wife would love. I couldn’t hear her reassurances that the seats were good and she was happy as I had already started to spiral. I got our seats changed and my wife was more uncomfortable in the new location, and it ruined the night. I laid out this for Amy and we walked through it and she explained some things I could have done in the moment that would have eased myself, even in a crowd. That was an unbelievable experience. I also got to connect to my inner child, which I didn’t think was an actual thing for everyone until it happened to me. It was eye opening. I have since had experiences that truly rattled me and I was able to take the space I needed and was able to rebound quicker and fuller than I ever had. I grew so much in the weeks I saw her and I will never be the same…in the best possible way.
The tools and support I have been given truly have helped me navigate issues not only in the moment but also once I get to a safe space to work through them so they do not continue to linger and affect my mindset.”
-Chris Stewart
There are Three Levels of Access to Secure Love Connection
This program includes voice and text messaging support through an app called Viber—because sometimes, the biggest breakthroughs come in the messy middle of life. Whether it’s a tough dating moment or an anxious spiral, I’ll be right there to help you regulate, reframe, and move forward. All three levels offer private access to me!
Here is what is included in this transformational program:
Level One
- 1:1 Onboarding Call with Amy
- Access to 5 Learning Modules and All Tools
- 2 Months of 1:1 voice and text coaching
- $498
Level Two
- 1:1 Onboarding Call with Amy
- Access to 5 Learning Modules and All Tools
- 4 Months of 1:1 voice and text coaching
- 2 Group Q&A Calls per Month
- $998
Level Three
- 1:1 Onboarding Call with Amy
- Access to 5 Learning Modules and All Tools
- 6 Months of 1:1 voice and text coaching
- 2 Group Q&A Calls per Month
- 4 Months of Weekly 60-minute 1:1 Zoom sessions with Amy
It’s important to me to make these levels as accessible as possible. Payment plans available at all levels.
Lifetime Access to 5 Modules of Training & Exercises covering the following topics:
Module 1
Module 2
Module 3
Module 4
Module 5
Each module has meditations and exercises to help guide you into greater trust.
Plus, you'll receive these 4 Helpful Tools:
- The Resilience Code Workbook is your nervous system’s most handy companion guiding you to feeling more regulated in 6 weeks
- 21-Day Meditation Series, which sets the stage for developing a stronger connection to your intuition
- The Values Compass, which guides you to living in complete integrity and asking for your needs
- I Wonder Map is a comprehensive dating and relationship companion that helps you sustain trust and safety while inviting in magic
In just a few short months imagine saying to your friend over coffee:
- “I know I can really trust myself when I feel like something is off.”
- “I’m so happy I’m no longer anxiously awaiting the phone call.”
- “It’s so great to let go of the dating rules and be myself.”
- “I’m feeling clear on my needs, and I know how to give those needs to myself and feel good sharing with others.”
- “I know what I bring to a relationship…”
- “I’m living in integrity with my values.”
- “I finally feel safe enough to receive love and support from others. I’m going slowly and I know it will build over time.”
"I feel like I’m getting to know myself on a much deeper level. I learned that I don’t need to settle or change myself to find a partner."
“Amy helped me navigate a challenging relationship by providing the tools to regulate my nervous system. This gave me clarity and allowed me to connect more with my true feelings. Her support throughout my journey of being newly single and dating has helped me build greater self-trust. Our work on values has helped me focus on how I want to show up in my relationships and what’s important to me.
Tough moments when I doubt myself or need support through Voxer have been a lifesaver. Knowing I can leave Amy a message and receive the guidance or support I need has helped me on many occasions outside of our sessions.”
Kimberly Stevens
ABOUT ME:
Hi, I’m Amy. In December of 2018, I found myself looking in the mirror at someone I didn’t know. I was living in a chronic state of urgency, finding it difficult to slow down (even when I was on vacation), depressed, and had lots of health issues (endometriosis, digestive problems, insomnia, and perimenopausal symptoms).
Six months later, I retired from my lucrative career in fashion retail. I had no idea what I wanted or how I would recover.
Since then, I’ve read 100s of books, been in over a dozen trainings, worked with a therapist, experienced regular energy healing, and learned how to regulate myself.
The moments where I allowed myself to be truly vulnerable, to honor all of the parts of me that were sad, or ashamed, or bitter, or jealous or afraid created the most powerful and lasting shifts in my nervous system. I realized that I was living in fear and scarcity my entire life. Even though I have been surrounded by abundance, because of my programming, I couldn’t see past the fear into love.
I’m on a mission to help this planet. And, you, my friend, are here because you are being called by your higher self to heal so you may be in service to the greater good. Whatever that looks like for you.
And thank goodness for you. I need you, and so does the world.
I encourage you to listen to that nudge, and claim your spot in the GREAT AWAKENING.
Who This Program is For:
✅ You want to feel calm, confident, and at peace in relationships.
✅ You’re tired of the emotional ups and downs of dating and love.
✅ You’re ready to break free from anxious or avoidant attachment patterns.
✅ You’re open to a nervous system-based approach to healing.
🚫 Who this is NOT for:
❌ You’re looking for quick-fix dating tips or manipulative “love hacks.”
❌ You’re unwilling to explore your inner world and nervous system healing.
❌ You want someone else to change, rather than focusing on your own transformation.
If you’re ready to trust yourself, trust love, and experience emotional safety like never before…
✨Now is the time to join Secure Love Connection.
"Amy has varied and well-developed skills that allow her to meet me where I am, no matter where that is on a given day."
“Amy’s program, Secure Love Connection, came along at the perfect time for me. Not only does this program offer a deep well of accessible, applicable, and helpful information, but Amy’s presence and attunement have also been a wonderful gift. I found myself using the text and voice access regularly to process and stay present with my own journey throughout the course, and Amy’s consistency and presence through Voxer have been not just valuable, but healing. I’ve often been able to receive insightful support in real time when I need it or talk through what I need to process, even if the response comes later.
Her unique blend of grounded information, intuitive insight, and warmth creates a pleasant, loving, and effective journey into secure relating.”
Lizzie Rose Reiss
"She is incredibly intuitive, intelligent, wise, kind, empathetic and humble. She never judges. She listens with an open heart and clear mind."
“Amy is an extraordinary healer and guide. It has been such a blessing to have Amy in my life. I am a professional, a business woman who has lived through a lot of trauma in early life. I have been fortunate enough to embark on a spiritual awakening in my 40s, and Amy has been a key figure on this journey. Working with Amy is like having a fairy god sister and a trusted bestie who is always there for me. She is incredibly intuitive, intelligent, wise, kind, empathetic and humble. She never judges. She listens with an open heart and clear mind. I feel safe and understood and supported by her. I’m always amazed by all the different healing modalities she is adept in, and how she works with such ease and clarity in being able to spot where I need support and guidance. She always knows exactly what healing tool I need at a particular moment, whether it’s meditation, movement, breath work, or grounding or somatic healing. Life is full of unexpected challenges and endless demands and stresses. Over the past two years, Amy has helped me so much in navigating key family, romantic and professional relationships, healing from early childhood wounds, recovering from a devastating breakup, learning emotional regulation, self care and self love. I am eternally grateful for Amy.”
- Joyce Sophia Xu
"I could not have gotten to this place without Amy."
“I entered into life coaching with Amy wanting answers to three really big areas in my life. After our very first session, things that were blocking me rose to the surface that we were able to process and then answers extremely quickly started to come to me. Amy really helped me with the “processing” part as I have a hard time understanding and working through my own emotions. However, while I started this journey looking for answers, I came out with a deep knowing that being in true alignment with myself is the answer to everything. When you are able to show up as you are in any given moment, you don’t feel the need to look for answers – you are the answers and you attract the energy that is meant for you – that is the real magic.”
- Alexa Wyatt
"The work that Amy does is truly life changing !"
Amy and I have done so much together . She has guided me through some very tough times where I was unable to see myself. I am making major shifts in my life just by having Amy by my side giving me different perspectives and helping me see things as they truly are . Amy’s breathwork journey was also truly life changing for me . I have done these before but nothing compares to what I experienced with Amy! She is everything you could ask for in a guide , breathwork teacher, friend , mentor .
- Sarah Murphy
"With Amy’s gentle guidance I was able to reconnect with who I am"
“I was given tools to develop a better understanding of myself both personally and professionally, with some very profound moments along the way. At the end of our coaching, I felt empowered to explore a career alternative in a creative space, after years of just talk! It helped that Amy had helped me to develop a personalized action plan. Amy’s support helped me channel my emotions in a positive way and feel empowered rather than helpless and stuck. By our last session I felt more centered and ready to move forward in a new direction.“
- Rachel Greer
"I walked away (...) equipped with practical tools to move toward my goal(s)."
“I was able to access the root cause for subconscious beliefs and patterns that were holding me back from moving forward. I walked away from time with Amy being able to lovingly release those and that which was no longer for me- and equipped with practical tools to move toward my goal(s). “